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I will tell you that later

I have a few more days on this so I thought why not put in a little effort. I’m a free thinker and an intellectual at heart. I love to paint even though I’m a complete amateur. There is nothing so relaxing and moving as creating something from nothing. To take a thought or an image in your mind and create it. I’ve been an avid reader since three and a writer since ten. My all time favorite novel is Crime and Punishment, and I wrote my first novel when I was twelve. Music is a very important part of my life, and I mostly listen to jazz and classical when I’m trying to write or paint. My friends would describe me as extroverted, friendly, and a bit eccentric. Most people pride themselves on being unique and I suppose that’s true in some way. As someone who is very unique in their habits and lifestyle I can tell you it actually really sucks. I’m hardly a pariah or ostracized by anyone, in fact most people seem to generally like me. My interests and goals just don’t align with most people my age, and I have difficulty relating to a lot of people because of it. Reading that may make it seem like I’m some unscrupulous degenerate, but it has more to do with my worldview. My goal is to focus on my career. I work long hours and I want to actually earn great money doing something that I love. I won’t bore you with the details, but I plan on being in a great job within a years time.

I could make a long list of what I’m looking for. Beautiful, intelligent, funny, and goal oriented, but to be honest that is all superfluous to me. More than anything I want to find someone who shares similar goals and values. Someone who is constantly challenging me to be better. I don’t look at relationships as to what I can get out of it, but rather what can I give. I don’t put people on pedestals, and I will not demean myself for the sake of a relationship. My life is a drama free zone, and I will tolerate nothing else but respect. Relationships should flow effortlessly and naturally so there’s no need to rush. And at the end of the day I paid for this damn thing so I’m at least giving some effort.